Dating thai gils
Don’t shout at the waitress when she gets your order wrong, she doesn’t want you to get all serious!!
Don’t boast that you have this and that, she’s heard it all before.
What initially appeared like a great, innocent girl who had just graduated college is now tattooed and lives in Pattaya.
I also connected with a girl from Thailand, and we struck up a friendship. I was surprised that she only had fifty friends on her Facebook and when I asked her about this, she said she wasn’t a big Facebook user.
For years I’d read about people’s terrible Thai dating stories, but never really thought they applied to me, since I never frequented clubs or go-go bars. First of all, let me just preempt my story by saying that it has nothing to do with Thailand, and everything to do with the girl.
All the stories seemed to center around Thailand’s notorious go-go girls, which many foreigners fell for (and lost considerable money in the process). There are some warning signs which I wish I’d recognized when I first met her.
This post is not a bitch session, nor am I writing it to degrade good women in Thailand.
Do be clean and dress neatly, she wants you to smell and look nice.
But my terrible Thai dating experience is about a good lady. Unfortunately–what with all the misguided information out there–I learned the rough way. Since there wasn’t much to do in the kingdom of sand and oil, I spent considerable time surfing the net.
I write it to help newcomers in Thailand understand that seemingly good dates can turn bad anywhere in the world, and the Land of Smiles is definitely no exception.
Do realise that if she takes you to meet her parents, she knows that’s the first step to getting married in Thailand.
Do realise that she enjoys doing your washing/cleaning etc.., she wants you to know she would make a good wife.
Do ask her about her mom and dad, she wants you to care about them too.